Monday, March 30, 2009

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2nd Life Drama...

I sit and write this more for myself and not to bash other or be judgmental to others.
These are my thoughts and feelings to be expressed in this blog.
Second life:
How easy it is for people to say they do not want Drama in their 2nd life. I hear it everyday, that they come to 2nd life for fun...and not drama.
Definition
1 prose or verse composition, especially one telling a serious story, that is intended for representation by actors impersonating the characters and performing the dialogue and action.
2 serious narrative work or program for television, radio, or the cinema.
Theatrical plays of a particular kind or period: Elizabethan drama.
The art or practice of writing or producing dramatic works.
3 situation or succession of events in real life having the dramatic progression or emotional effect characteristic of a play: the drama of the prisoner's escape and recapture.
The quality or condition of being dramatic: a summit meeting full of drama


Most people really refer to the slang version of drama as it is to a "drama queen"
"Someone who angsts about the littlest things, the most unlikely possibilities, and how spasses out about the most ridiculously unimportant matters. "
I can admit that I am a so called "Drama Queen" but
Didn't Shakespeare write these lines.
Jacques: All the world's a stage,And all the men and women merely players;They have their exits and their entrances,
This seems to me to fit the real definition of drama, That Life is the Drama that we are all playing in. So we have Real Life and a 2nd Life...Both are drama's that we play as players.
So in a sense 1st Drama and 2nd Drama
we all have our roles we play in life as well as out 2nd life...we can not avoid the dreaded word "Drama" cause that is what life is...Its about drama, If you don't want a 2nd Drama don't come to 2nd life....stick with you Real Life "play"
I Admit I have my own drama irl and in 2nd life...but i am not ashamed of it.
Just like in real life we make friends, we loose friends, we have people we dislike, and do not wish to be around.

Feelings:
We are all real people, real feelings real hurts behind the AV, even if you are an Elf, Neko, deamon, Lesbian, Gay, Herm, She-male, straight. We all bring our own emotions.
We all can feel the pain...when things you say come out wrong...And it is so hard to say your sorry.
Is it better in a situation where both sides are hurt to remain silent?
I do not know...you can get in a situation where if you are silent can make it worse, or if you say something it can lead to worse....what do you do?

AFK in second life:
One of the easiest things to happen in second life that seems to be the biggest issue for many... is when the person they are speaking to goes AFK with out saying anything.
I myself don't get upset over this, since i do not know what is going on at their side of the computer... Laundry? Kids? work? bio break? emergancy phone call? Working on side projects...So many things can happen...Do we just assume people are rude?
I have been in a situation where I am considered Rude...cause i have gone silent ... or away... with out saying BRB or what not. I have had the same happen to me, but i do not chastise them for being rude...I try to accept they were busy doing something else or talking to others.
Second life lets us talk to many people with IM's and hold many convos unlike real life.
Are we all a bit ADD?

I have said it many times.
But all i can be is sorry for what i have done...I can only be who i am. learn from my errors.
If friends leave cause of my faults...then i have to accept that.
I am not a perfect person, I have many faults...1st life and in 2nd life.
All i can do is try to be better.

I can forgive....can you?

Cathiee








Wednesday, March 18, 2009